I clicked on the link and my suspicion that it was someone else was confirmed. I will go ahead an encourage you to check out little Edrei's preschool graduation. Actually, no, don't do that. It's pretty boring.
When I was on myspace, I would periodically do a search for my name, and it went from 4 pages to 7 pages to 11 pages. I stopped looking after that because it became depressing. Edrei's are coming out of the wood work! There seem to be a lot of Asian and Hispanic people named Edrei. It's all very interesting. I was first confronted with this issue when I moved to Philly 4 years ago. I went to the bank to open a bank account and the woman pronounced my name correctly. I was surprised so I said, "Wow. No one ever gets my name right." What she said in response blew my mind, "Oh, well I have a friend named Edrei." What! Obviously it seems absurd that I would think that I was the only one...but you've all met me...I thought I was the only one!
I wonder if we have any of the same personality traits. I like to think that having a unique name plays a huge roll in making me the person that I am today. For instance, I am great with names. I remember names and you better believe that I am going to pronounce it correctly. My name is Edrei, not Ed or Eddie or some other variation. Granted, once I know and love you, then you can give me whatever nick name you want. But when I first meet someone, I don't want him/her asking me what else they can call me. You can call me Edrei, just like everyone else. Because of situations like that, I am very sensitive to names, and when I meet someone with a unique name, I make sure that I pronounce it correctly. You'll be surprised at how many people will give you a nick name just because they are used to everyone butchering their real name. Well not on my watch, new friend. Your name is safe with me.
I think I got off on a rant somewhere. Sorry about that! Please do not let this discourage you from naming your children after me.
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